This word is actually nothing but everything. But I'm really surprised to see that why student or teenagers don't have patience. There is a little word to use when you know you are wrong. But why we always (specially teenagers & college students) avoid it i.e. saying sorry when we know that we aren't right.
Many a time I observe that when teacher rebuke his or her student instead of saying sorry student argue with !
I am really surprised to see that how much time has been changed
since the time we were student. We never spend our time in argument with our teachers but now-a-days things are different or say totally different.
Sometimes we say sorry because we know well that by using this little but effective device we will save our valuable time.
Question is still unanswered that why teenagers don't have patience?
we know well that our environment creates everything and we ourself create it. What is environment? of course the surroundings in which we ( teenager students and we) resides. Environment is friend circle, family and teacher. We see, wwe ovserve and as it is human psychology there is a unique thing in human i.e curiosity which come in thought after seeing the things constantly. Perhaps parents allow their offsprings to commit such things that are actually not good for them and for society as well thinking that its my only son and daughter or any other baseless logic that create ill environment.
Really this act of parent is not going to strong their offsprings but make them weak from very starting because it is the law of nature we have to wait for everything i.e we must have patience for the things as everything will happen but a protocol is necessary to make them happen and every protocol takes time and for it you have to wait and for this you must be patient.
Parents allow them to do things thinking that they are showing their love but actually they are making the roots of their offsprings weak by their love . They fulfill their baseless demands and think that they have perform their duty well. But its myth because it creates an illusion that everything can be achieved easily .
But dear parents life is not so easy by this practise your offsprings will become lazy and find everything monotonous because they would not have habit to wait as I usually observe in most of the teenager students.
For students its a message : dear student if you will not have patience you may loose the opportunity because opportunity come but it never come directly or say it disguise itself before coming to you, If you have patience only then you can observe that the thing before you is an opportunity that you must grab.
If you have observed every minute or second you spent with people from whom you can learn something then you will find that you are able to understand opportunity because you had patience and you have learnt how opportunity chase you and then you will be in the position to catch the opportunity .
here I would like to add a real example of my life , some of my classmates are selling fruits on thelas because that time they just ignored to their teachers thinking as if the person standing before us is a stupid and who learnt and had patience in listening to teachers are now on the great positions or going to that position.
I couldn't stop myself to write this article whin I have seen a student ; while giving exam duty; arguing with my co-invigilator and that student were behaving as if he were a king or something else but as i could see the mistake is not of student who were behaving like but of environment to which that student belongs to .
So its my humble request to parents: give their offsprings love and affection but not make them weak by your love. As a bird is fully confiedent on its new born babies and let them fly and face the truth of nature and allow them to learn new things but always guide or punish them on their wrong doing . You must apply this because your offsprings are asset of our country and by this you will become anti-nationalist. And I fully beleieve that you will not be like to prefix this title before your name.
@ JATIN KAKKAR J.K.
Disclaimer: the purpose of this article is mere communicate what I see what I observe and think necessary to share with my countrymen
Many a time I observe that when teacher rebuke his or her student instead of saying sorry student argue with !
I am really surprised to see that how much time has been changed
since the time we were student. We never spend our time in argument with our teachers but now-a-days things are different or say totally different.
Sometimes we say sorry because we know well that by using this little but effective device we will save our valuable time.
Question is still unanswered that why teenagers don't have patience?
we know well that our environment creates everything and we ourself create it. What is environment? of course the surroundings in which we ( teenager students and we) resides. Environment is friend circle, family and teacher. We see, wwe ovserve and as it is human psychology there is a unique thing in human i.e curiosity which come in thought after seeing the things constantly. Perhaps parents allow their offsprings to commit such things that are actually not good for them and for society as well thinking that its my only son and daughter or any other baseless logic that create ill environment.
Really this act of parent is not going to strong their offsprings but make them weak from very starting because it is the law of nature we have to wait for everything i.e we must have patience for the things as everything will happen but a protocol is necessary to make them happen and every protocol takes time and for it you have to wait and for this you must be patient.
Parents allow them to do things thinking that they are showing their love but actually they are making the roots of their offsprings weak by their love . They fulfill their baseless demands and think that they have perform their duty well. But its myth because it creates an illusion that everything can be achieved easily .
But dear parents life is not so easy by this practise your offsprings will become lazy and find everything monotonous because they would not have habit to wait as I usually observe in most of the teenager students.
For students its a message : dear student if you will not have patience you may loose the opportunity because opportunity come but it never come directly or say it disguise itself before coming to you, If you have patience only then you can observe that the thing before you is an opportunity that you must grab.
If you have observed every minute or second you spent with people from whom you can learn something then you will find that you are able to understand opportunity because you had patience and you have learnt how opportunity chase you and then you will be in the position to catch the opportunity .
here I would like to add a real example of my life , some of my classmates are selling fruits on thelas because that time they just ignored to their teachers thinking as if the person standing before us is a stupid and who learnt and had patience in listening to teachers are now on the great positions or going to that position.
I couldn't stop myself to write this article whin I have seen a student ; while giving exam duty; arguing with my co-invigilator and that student were behaving as if he were a king or something else but as i could see the mistake is not of student who were behaving like but of environment to which that student belongs to .
So its my humble request to parents: give their offsprings love and affection but not make them weak by your love. As a bird is fully confiedent on its new born babies and let them fly and face the truth of nature and allow them to learn new things but always guide or punish them on their wrong doing . You must apply this because your offsprings are asset of our country and by this you will become anti-nationalist. And I fully beleieve that you will not be like to prefix this title before your name.
@ JATIN KAKKAR J.K.
Disclaimer: the purpose of this article is mere communicate what I see what I observe and think necessary to share with my countrymen
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